Archive for December 2014

Learning to Say Goodbye

It is difficult to know when a relationship to come to an end. When the problems recur do should we keep trying? When we know that the best is the separation? Reflection of four questions can help us decide. Once, the main function of the relationships of couple era the childbearing and build a family, today, is more important personal experience that we live in the couple’s life. Earlier, the continuity of the relationship was assured no matter what happened, many people have had to endure stormy situations because so had that be, even today still happening although in many fewer cases. At present already there is social pressure that prevented the dissolution of a marriage or a couple. However, there are a series of values that indirectly influence the mindset of the members of a couple and the healthy development of the same condition.

We live in a society oriented to consumerism and the search for something new, a society somehow infantilizada. We also seek benefits in relations rapid, short term and with little personal investment. I.e., as if it were a company, if we do not get immediate emotional benefits succulent company we turn to another relationship in the same way as disolveriamos. A quick divorce would be the solution, the problem is that in the future we will return to repeat the mistakes with this mentality. Firstly, we must accept that it is not enough to love, sometimes two people can be very sure of their feelings towards each other, but they cannot match their vital projects. Quitting forcing reality to enable both to exercise calm and at peace with itself is a challenge to overcome.

Secondly, should know where this limit that distinguishes the behaviors and attitudes that allow you to experience how productive conflict of those that are harmful to the relationship. Thirdly, must be borne in mind that there are three elements, you, me, and the relationship. Each must take responsibilities of himself and the two of the relationship. One cannot solve the problems concerning the two. You can cast them on our backs, but not solve them. The last thing to consider is as we feel us before the needs which shows us the couple. It should not do everything that our couple wants to make if not we feel comfortable in the situation, this eventually would end up taking a toll, put certain limits. We could then say that when vital projects are not compatible, when the limits of respect, are overcome when we were left alone to fight for a relationship or we cannot accept the needs of our partner, perhaps there’s time to put an end to a relationship. Enrique Jimenez thanks to iMprove (publish on iphone). For more information on personal development see iMprove iphone applications

Elizeu De Campos Mello

Between these elements, quechama the attention in the act is how much the composition of the table of the first meeting. Call for the just-installed president of the Laboring Center, Jose Deslandes deSousa, the first one convoked to compose table, before exactly of the members dadiretoria, was mayor of Thick Tip, Elizeu De Campos Mello18, being esseaclamado as ' ' friend of the classroom trabalhadora' ' answering to be eminteira solidarity it. This climate of saudosismo, placed from the solidariedadedo Center if contemplates in ' ' valor' ' that it possesss the laboring classroom naquelafestividade. The image of first Of May if clarifies for the convenience of nenhumadiscusso on wage condition of the workers or of its conditions detrabalho to be placed before the Mayor. Of this form, the posterior ones atasdeixam some something that also multiplies the name of the association. 2a. Call of the Assembly of 18 of August of 1929: Perantunes Joo asked for the word.

This was only conceived it after president, Jose Deslandes de Souza, to warn that in the seio of not sedevia the laboring society to it; ‘ to deal with poltica’ ‘ (COCB Act 10). This then asked for one ‘ ‘ explicao’ ‘ laborers so that these could vote in eleiesdaquele year exerting one of ' ' duties cvicos' ' of the society. Article 72 of the statute of the Laboring Center was cited nareunio for Perantunes, similar to omit the incentive of Cardon to the vote dosoperrios. This then directed to the President, asking for ' ' esclarecimentos' ' on one ' ' tellegrama' ' I contend ' ' assumptos politicos' ' they would quepoderiam to compromise ' ' good nome' ' of the COCB. As much Deslandes de Souza how much Cardon, had answered asacusaes in Assembly. Saying that such positions broke ' ' in carterparticular' ' , nothing having the Laboring Center to see with this.