And I say of the relationship, because in these destructive patterns, we are also working to happen. But how? I always thought my partner was responsible for everything. Assisting or participating: giving, forgiving, ignoring behavior, insults, provocative, challenging or perhaps, just silence. Accept the need to spread love to the other, it is not easy, is a process as painful as staying in the relationship. But obviously, the other has not shown signs of appreciation or my love or my values or my person. Is it worthwhile to continue to love this bad love? When the couple betrayed what I appreciate most. It’s time to leave that relationship. Her loving ways and means are not reliable.

If you really want to stop self-deceiving, but you are hard to break up, then starts the process of gradually: First start by doing things like where you do not have to do with the couple. Looking for people related to you and your likes to share activities that your partner does not participate. Leave to focus your time and activities in relation to your partner. Build your own life regardless of your partner. Re those things that you like and you love, but you have to be shelved by waiting for your love poorly. Sign up for courses, workshops, classes and other activities that will connect with different people and with your interests, so, go aside the relationship partner as your only sense of life.

Also maybe need to write, get you to a group of growth. Attend therapy, read about the issues couples to feel that way more power for decision making and abandonment, once and for all, not your partner, but your self-deception. Stop calling me all the time, a process of separation, allows you to look, perhaps, you realize you never will pursue, and always you, who are looking for and conducive to meetings. And once you begin to see how you feel, you should be able to dispense with your partner more time. It’s like an addiction, you will have setbacks, but nothing is worse, to continue living in this mediocre life that your partner gives you, in these conditions. Remember it is a process, but also a decision. And when making a determination in favor of self-esteem, really the strength of will and courage are imposed with force. There will be setbacks, but also many, many successes. Please focus on your recovery and not in your relapse, that is the process of improving each day and build a better life for you.

Recognizes that the better you are you, you’ll be better able to then yes, you attract more healthy and constructive relationships. But no one can walk the road to recovery more than you … So yes infidelity, lying, abuse, indifference, dishonesty at play in the relationship, perhaps it is best to leave, even cause us pain … Yes you are living in a relationship of this nature, you are surely having a hard and live life with pain, fear and a great disappointment … it really worth it? Thanks for reading, my mission and intention is the quality of emotional life … Some of the topics covered in these articles, it can challenge their world view … Cecreto. Cecreto Inc. is a center dedicated to the quality of emotional life and has different series of topical issues such as relationships between parents and children, partner relations, etc. And it offers, the launch of its E_Book Enter the page and subscribe to receive free newsletter: The Ten Commandments of married life.